I don’t dislike her but think she gets way too many passes on this forum for her shitty decisions. I come from a similar cultural and religious background as her and would have NEVER let my parents or my communities perceptions of me back myself into a corner with someone I wasn’t 100% sure about marrying.
There were a million of red flags with Asuelu the minute she brought him over him. Hell she was doubting the relationship the days leading up to the wedding and on the wedding day. She should’ve taken L, sent him back, and been a single mother. I mean she’s practically been one since she’s been married to him anyway.
Honestly, this is just a prime example of why you shouldn’t let people you don’t know raw dog you especially on a vacation. Also, none of this excuses any of Asuelu’s sexual assault allegations. Only people I feel bad for in this situation is the kids.
This is a bad take. Continuing to do things that your spouse has consistently told you makes them uncomfortable does not make you a good partner.