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  • Nicola6_@alien.topBto90 Day FianceKimberly is justified
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    1 year ago

    Can confirm it will drive you I N S A N E because my husband has bipolar 1 and when he gets manic he becomes incredibly narcissistic and has a crazy lack of empathy. Like won’t comfort me when I’m crying and is 0% interested in how I’m feeling.

    We are biologically wired for connection and if our spouse (as an adult) or parents (as a child) isn’t attuned to us at all emotionally it’s viscerally distressing. I’m not referring to people who would prefer to have more emotional support or feeling listened to. I mean when there is zero true listening, attunement, and empathy.




  • I have a question for the Hamily: do you think the people who claim they met on “a language learning app” actually did? This is a pretty common 90 day couple origin story.

    I ask because Clayton and Anali claim this but she seems to know no English. And also because I’ve never heard of anyone I know using an app where you find random strangers to talk to in another language you barely know? Like does anyone know the name of the most popular app like this?

    Also always seemed kinda fishy with Chantel and Pedro meeting that way. I don’t know why but Chantel doesn’t strike me as someone likely to join something like that! Though her Spanish after knowing Pedro a little while was pretty good.