I think TJ is full of BS and thought Kim would just go along with it. However, I also feel like Kim expected everyone to just bend to her and his family showed her early that wasn’t going to happen. I also really wish she would just have taken some Hindi classes online, or maybe joined an American expat group ? TJ is an absolute selfish dick who refuses to try and that whole Mummy she has made my life hell bit really solidified that. but Kimberly also seems to be not trying.