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Cake day: October 17th, 2023

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  • I’m not a fan of Kimberly’s, but I have empathy for her. Depression is no joke. She has been spiraling and has no support. The lack of empathy shown by TJ is terrible. Of course, he has his own issues, but Kimberly needs help. She is clearly stressed out and appears to be having a breakdown.

    I have the impression she is immature and not equipped to deal with culture shock and the necessary adjustments as well. It certainly didn’t help that TJ wasn’t honest with her about what was expected of her before they got married.

    I know from experience with having a partner from a different culture, love isn’t enough. For a relationship between people from two different cultures, especially where one of them moves to their partner’s country and lives with their family, it’s essential to be mature and prepared to male a lot of effort and to have the love abd support of your partner to help you adjust.


  • PackerSquirrelette@alien.topBto90 Day FianceAshley & Manuel
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    10 months ago

    It’s hard to pick just one. He’s shown himself to be sexist, disrespectful, and racist towards Ashley. He comes across like a man-child. Ashley seems like someone who has ambition, while Manuel doesn’t. I can never understand women finding petulant, immature men who leech off of them attractive. They’re a nahor turnoff to me.


  • PackerSquirrelette@alien.topBto90 Day FianceAshley & Manuel
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    10 months ago

    When she said that, I thought to myself, “She’s a smart woman, smart enough to know what the deal with Manuel is and that he’s using her. But she’ll still go ahead and marry him.” I’m guessing she has low self-esteem or is afraid to be alone. Sex can only take you so far in a relationship.

    As someone who’s had a weakness for Latin American guys, I would never go for a guy like Maniuel.