He is totally not chill nor down to earth. He is giving stoners a bad name

One of my twins (31F) moved out of the US right after UNI. She has been gone for like a decade. She has lived/worked in So Korea, Africa, and now moved to Rome a few weeks ago. I miss her like crazy but I do nothing but positive vibes when we talk. Its not my life. Parents need to mind their own business more. Also, her twin sister is halfway thru a 1 yr backpacking honeymoon trip around the world. She is going to some sketch ass places. As her mom I have to hope I didn’t raise a dumb ass and support them in their endeavors.

I would probably be not liked or be labeled boring. I am not about to air my dirty laundry on those sidebar convos with producers. My partner would be well loved. My family has told me they get custody of him if we split and I am on my own. He is quiet and reserved. Wants to be as low key and un noticed anywhere we go. But he just doesn’t like attention. One on one or small groups he freaking hilarious and super smart. And one of my favorite things is how much of a feminist he is while still being super chivalrous. If that makes sense. Meanwhile, I am over here, usually high, always sarcastic, and way to quick with the F word. My partner doesn’t curse at all.

He is the epitome of a Scrub. If he was 23 like her, maybe. But dude, at this age and you can’t pee in the house? I live in So Ca and I get it, the rent is crazy. But there are places that rent for probably the same and have a toilet. Damn, one of my kids lived in rural Africa a couple years and even she had a bathroom. That is a totally unpermitted “apartment” no doubt