Reading fiction is a way of consuming stories, just like watching movies and television. It’s not inherently better or worse. What matters is the quality of the stories you’re exposed to. If I choose to spend my evening reading a trashy thriller, while my friend watches a thought provoking and interesting movie which deals with complex themes, I don’t think my time was better spent just because I read words off a page. Some of the most interesting and intelligent people I know hardly ever read. As long as they bother engaging with interesting thoughts, themes and stories, I couldn’t care less whether they read or not.
I always get suspicious when people describe themselves as polite.