alyboba19@alien.topBto90 Day Fiance•Can we please quit saying Kimberly didn’t do her researchEnglish
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1 year agoI will take this moment to also talk about how people are quick to criticize Kimberly’s blow ups, but ignore how she ended up at that point? TJ is completely and entirely unsupportive of her feelings and absolutely REFUSES to comfort her or simply acknowledge when he has hurt her! Anytime she is upset he literally cannot comprehend how it’s his fault. The first night she is there she asks him “Can you just say that you hurt me?” She wasn’t asking for him to apologize or to take responsibility for the poor construction. She just wanted him to recognize she was hurt and he couldn’t even give her that. If I had a partner who could never apologize or comfort me when I’m upset, I’d probably scream like a banshee too.
I feel for her. People are focusing on the scream, but just a minute before she literally asked for a hug and “I’m sorry you feel depressed” (the bar is in HELL!!!) and he was like “I will never do that.” I would probably lose my shit on my partner too!