You’ve put it in a great context. I think this sub forgets that she’s literally alone, in a new country, without support, and in a physical location that is horribly unsafe and looks to be a suburb so public transport may not be an option. Robbers killed their dog ffs. I also don’t get why this sub likes to forget that going the other way ALSO provides visa restrictions as coming to the US. She can’t work or open a bank account to provide to the joint funds which she, to me, clearly wants to do. (I’m too lazy to look up visa requirements into the SA but for other countries I’ve looked at, it typically is around the same coming to the US in regards to work visas and social benefits.)
You’ve put it in a great context. I think this sub forgets that she’s literally alone, in a new country, without support, and in a physical location that is horribly unsafe and looks to be a suburb so public transport may not be an option. Robbers killed their dog ffs. I also don’t get why this sub likes to forget that going the other way ALSO provides visa restrictions as coming to the US. She can’t work or open a bank account to provide to the joint funds which she, to me, clearly wants to do. (I’m too lazy to look up visa requirements into the SA but for other countries I’ve looked at, it typically is around the same coming to the US in regards to work visas and social benefits.)