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Cake day: October 17th, 2023

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  • I feel the same way and have found this is the minority opinion. It seems like she has no support, feels out of control, and now is in a new normal that she was not prepared for after explicitly asking about.

    All that plus the general culture shock, language barrier, etc. I know everyone says that no one Googles what to expect but there’s so much nuance from family to family and then it’s different when you’re actually in the situation. I don’t know I feel like I would have let out a deranged scream sooner …


  • I feel the same way and have found this is the minority opinion. It seems like she has no support, feels out of control, and now is in a new normal that she was not prepared for after explicitly asking about.

    All that plus the general culture shock, language barrier, etc. I know everyone says that no one Googles what to expect but there’s so much nuance from family to family and then it’s different when you’re actually in the situation. I don’t know I feel like I would have let out a deranged scream sooner …