She was deadset on marrying dude from the start. Why didn’t she take the time to learn and understand his culture and the traditions that come with it?
When we got together, my husband made it their mission to research everything there is to know and took a dive head first into the Indian culture. We got court married in 2020, but are planning our 2024 wedding, and the first thing they asked was how each ceremony is done and why, as well as protocol. We’ve been together for almost 5 years, and they still ask questions and are curious about things, and I’m always happy to answer. The first time they met my parents, my mom made Indian food the whole week we were at their house. My husband joyfully ate and asked how each dish was made, and makes requests to this day whenever we see my mom! We also watch Bollywood films together all the time.
Its really not that hard to just ask and research. She wants things spoon fed to her tbh. If she wanted to, she would. She just sees TJ as an accessory to her “spiritual” side.
She is so relatable lol every time she had a scene, I’d tell my husband, “I feel like she’s my best friend!!” lol