I think he felt comfortable taking her money because she told him unless he could find a job where they could have constant contact she didn’t want him working. In one of the first few episodes he talks about how he did have a job but lost it because Nicole was calling all the time

She basically told him not to work unless it was a job where he could talk to her while at work. She is on the show saying “I don’t mind helping you out with money because that’s what people in love do” when in reality she is basically willing to pay him to stay home from work so she has access to him whenever she wants.

Yeah I don’t think it had as much to do with her weight as it did her attitude. Do I think he found her unattractive? Weight wise… yes. But it was definitely the way she acted that caused him to lose ALL interest. I am only up to the part where she is packing to go to Morocco to try for the K-3 visa. Anytime he tries to express that he is unhappy with the way she is acting she interrupts him and tries to talk over him or pushes on him. She refused to respect his culture or family. Put him in difficult situations (at the airport when they went to say bye and the look of absolute fear on his face when she put her head on his chest!). She slept all day, couldn’t keep up with him on physical excursions. Didn’t even want him to work unless he got a job where he could talk to her while at work. She basically asked him not to work. I think saying “it was only because of her weight” excuses all the red flags Nicole is proudly waving.

Your comment is what’s appalling. I’m sure you look like an absolute prize 🙄