She should not be screaming. She is an adult and is responsible for her actions .

Oh please. There are people of every gender from every country and every culture that tell lies outright or by omission to get or keep partners.

ESH. I think she humiliated him so badly about not having money that he wouldn’t be able to stomach asking her, and it was an F you to her as well. People in a sick relationship doing sick things. I’ve despised her ever since she reneged on bringing him to the US and lied to him about it. He married her with the understanding they would go to the US, and then she just flat changed her mind and he had no say.

Also, my bf and I scream every time her neck cord jumps out

Entitlement

You might want to get some professional help