Oh my gosh it was actually scary seeing how mad he got at the most basic questions. He takes everything as a personal attack, and instantly launches into a defensive position. He gaslights and manipulates to his advantage. And his eyes are absolutely scary when he’s mad, I can only imagine what he’s like w/o cameras…

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    11 months ago

    When he looks at her with those piercing amber eyes and says shit like: “We aren’t going to talk about this every day.” Who the hell does he think he is?

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    He’s a loser, and he’s entitled.

    The only thing he cares about is the gym, having a hot girlfriend, and an instagram presence. He actually a 32 year old bum who has nothing to offer. Him taking her out in LA is taking her to the beach, and places that are free.

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    He’s a punk ass low life shit, looking to score the cute’s gurl with zero to offer. She was stupid to believe his shtick. She’ll be back on the web soon looking for whatever.

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      He’s all “I’m a down to earth person,” to defend the fact that he makes poor choices, he’s an ass, and he will continue to do both. And not let her spend money on anything. She can say goodbye to Starbucks when running errands, he’s never allowing that shit if he doesn’t have an attached bathroom.

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    He should be insecure. He’s a 32 year old man living in a shack with an outhouse… Something’s wrong with him.

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      11 months ago

      lol- that was my exact thoughts. No way in hell I’m getting with a 32 year old whose place doesn’t even have a bathroom.

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    Rob is unbelievable… he thinks it’s normal to have an outdoor bathroom…. Omg…. She’s bougie because she wants an indoor bathroom? Sophie should run to the airport as fast as she can and go back to England.

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    Sophie is very kind and understanding with his situations but she’s staying up for herself too. Even when he got heated she didn’t match his energy. She stood her ground but kept control. She seems, key word. Seems like a good girl and isn’t as boujee as she was made out to be. She’s got her own secrets too but overall I think she’s a good women

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    Sophie is right about having a bathroom in the apartment and basic necessities in a apartment. The apartment is unsafe as is and walking to the bathroom at 2am just to go pee is unsafe as is. She’s not being a brat asking for an apartment with a bathroom, it’s a basic necessity to have an apartment with a bathroom. I’m currently living in an apartment and don’t have to walk to a bathroom outside to go pee or take a shower that’s shared by everyone in the apartment complex.

    I don’t think Sophie is being bratty with wanting a bathroom in the apartment. I do disagree with her saying she’s rich but she’s living off of grandpa.

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    At first I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt because he seems extremely insecure about his circumstances that could probably be worked out with a therapist. but he gives victim mentality. And if go unchecked it can turn verbally and emotionally possibly physically abusive

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    11 months ago

    1000%

    He has the maturity of a 13 yr old. And the emotional maturity of a 9 yr old

    Whoever raised him, failed greatly

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    I had to flee an abusive marriage twenty years ago, and much like Sophie, I was halfway across the world, isolated from everyone I’d ever known and completely dependent on my husband. It was the darkest period of my life, and at some points I didn’t think I would make it out alive. I had to plot and plan in order to leave him, and do it in a way that ensured he would not suspect anything, because I knew the minute he found out I was leaving him, my chances of survival got much smaller. Over a few weeks’ time, my parents and I came up with an idea that we thought would work. You see, I had found out that I was pregnant about a month before, and we had been quite surprised as we did not think we’d be able to have children. So I convinced him that I wanted to go back home for a week or two to celebrate with my mom and spend time with family. I did absolutely nothing to give him any indication that I was thinking about leaving him. When packing for the trip, I only brought things that I would need for that visit - nothing else. I knew that if he saw me packing sentimental stuff, he would wise up. The morning that he drove me to the airport in Nuremberg - I remember it was a Sunday - was the last time I ever saw him. I have never recovered any of my items that were abandoned in Germany.

    All of this is to say that it’s quite honestly very difficult for me to watch Robert’s scenes, because he reminds me so much of my ex husband. The manipulation is next level with this asshole. I’m worried for Sophie.

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    He said wanting to move was boogie and an attack on him as a provider 😂 umm i think she wants a goddamn bathroom in her dwelling. 🙄 hes out of control