Ah yes, the guys you see pop up in other subs bitching about their girl taking an hour to get ready or spending so much money on makeup/hair/skin stuff yet they pursued someone who looks the way they do.
Though I loved the one I saw years ago where she got tired of all his complaining about her getting ready and utterly stopped. Minimal skin care, got rid of the makeup, stopped spending money coloring her hair, etc. The bf suddenly got up into arms and was begging her to go back to how she was, but she realized how much money and time she saved she said at minimum she’d consider it if he bankrolled it and he balked. I wish I had saved that post.
Some countries have child support agreements with the US. Was he from the US side of Samoa? I would think the territories have that agreement. No idea how hard it is to get it through that though.