The way he try’s to call her bougee because she wants an indoor bathroom? And it doesn’t sound like she was raised rich, more like she was raised better than Rob and he’s trying to make the leap bigger than what it is. “You’re used to apartments in Dubai and Spain, but in poor America, we use communal bathrooms…” He has no ambitions to better in his life and I hope she see’s that before it’s too late…

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    He is in no position to date let alone marry someone. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again… Sophie go home!!!

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    I didn’t realize there was such a big age difference, 10 years is quite a bit! Makes me wonder what he’s been doing job wise all this time.

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      It’s terrifying!! I was once in a violent relationship and ALL the signs are there with Door Knob. I hope she gets away from him and quick. Mental abuse is as bad as physical abuse.

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        It’s not terrifying, it’s a pretty sizeable leap by a lot of people here to call his douchey behaviour abuse or potentially violent. He’s being a jerk, but this trope about being so scared for her, come on. For starters, that’s pretty serious to say about someone with such little to go on, and you know this is a bullshit reality show, right? They’re editing as they see fit, and while he deserves your disdain he doesn’t deserve to be called abusive.

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      The gaslighting this episode was super hard to watch! The only good thing is that the whole thing is caught in 4K for the world to see bc you know he’s they type to deny any wrongdoing to the end. I hope she’s gotten out of there since filming.

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    1. He’s not as cute as he thinks he is. His top lip is bigger than his bottom and it’s driving me crazy. 2. He’s trying to put his girl down so he can feel bigger about himself, it’s sad and the biggest red flag of them all 3. If he sees nothing wrong with a) being stuck in an elevator and b) not having an indoor bathroom then he’s truly delusional on top of the already narcissistic attitude.
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    Rob is so defensive about his living situation because he knows that he can’t provide an indoor bathroom and the way he speaks to her is fucked up. I hope she makes the right choice and moves back home. He doesn’t know anything about her she’s not living off her parents. Being self sufficient and making her own way.

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    His eyes……look at them when he says when are you gonna let it go. like somethings off and dark about him. And whenever she brings up concerns he has to assert himself. He makes me very uncomfortable.

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      Hes tripping ALL of my warning alarms. I have lived this. He is a scary mfer and the big blowup is coming. I can feel it.

      I want her to get smart and RUN.

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      I totally noticed something off about his eyes! They were pink/red and almost watery but not in a crying kind of way. It was super weird.

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    yeah i about died. bougie bathroom privileges lol. i wouldn’t share a bathroom at a hotel ffs hes out of his mind

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    I am curious who is her sponsor for the K1 Visa though?! Rob doesn’t seem like he has enough funds to be her sponsor.

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    The fact that he went straight to an aggressive response every time she is trying to explain herself is very telling. Dude is a walking red flag.

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    That gray thing, it’s not a dresser it looks like it belongs in a garage to store tools. But since there isn’t a garage it’s just junk

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    And in the preview he is so adamant that he doesn’t know what he will do with his life if he doesn’t have kids….are they going to have to run through the sketchy LA drug market courtyard to get to the bathroom at night too? Oh let me guess- he will have made his millions by then.

    Also “I didn’t cheat, I was just having sexually explicit and inviting conversations with another girl and she caught me. Fuck her”

    This guy is an entitled tool. Everything will magically work out for him with zero effort. Whoever waits around while he’s a worthless cheating bum can cash in later and if they leave, their loss! Not a gamble I’d be willing to take.

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      I’ve noticed an uptick in lazy and delusional people in the 90 day universe lately. Danielle (Yohan) is going to manifest money, Jibri will sell salt to a snail, this guy is going to cringe dance his way to millionaire status, etc.