I’m only on episode 12 of 90 day fiancé: the other way, but I can’t get over the how scared Sarper is of the social media thing. Maybe I’m being naive or gullible or giving him too much benefit of the doubt, but as someone who has been stalked and doesn’t use social media for that reason, I completely understand wanting to keep all my accounts locked down and not wanting my partner to post about me. So just taking him on his word about this, why knowingly agree to be on a reality show with all this exposure? Arguably much much worse than a girlfriend making an IG post about you.

And if he IS making up a bs excuse to prevent shekinah from getting messages from ex scorned lovers or wanting to preserve his single/playboy status, honestly same question… all those people are gonna come out of the woodwork eventually and/or people will clearly see he’s dating somebody.

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    My guess, he’s got like 59 lovers so he can’t be public with any one of them. BUT he figures 90df is American and won’t be seen. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

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    Someone speculated that he’s an escort, which I think the the most logical explaination. He doesn’t want his clients to know he has a girlfriend.

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    You’re so right about the stalker issue. My aunt has had like 3 stalkers and this is exactly why she refuses to be on social media. If he was truly worried about it he wouldn’t have a social media account or at least keep it private. Is his Instagram a private account? I doubt it

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      And presumably she would not agree to broadcast her life on national TV either. This entire scenario is completely fake - if you’re willing to have a relationship filmed for TV it makes no sense to draw the line at putting it on Instagram???

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    What he’s scared of is more women coming forward to tell him he’s a father. Must be a pain in the ass to keep creating new email accounts.

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    I think a lot of these people go on this show to further their IG/OF/modeling career. He seems like that type. Painting himself as this Casanova/Don Juan type doesn’t make much sense if he’s trying to get married but it makes a lot of sense if he’s using the show as advertisement for his spicy content.

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      Well, there are plenty of women who read romance novels about having sex with half human, half monsters, ripped, bulging veined, so it doesn’t surprise me. And there is also a gay market for this, not the romance novels, but porn.

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    I suspect that there is a woman (or maybe women) on the sideline who Sarper has led her to believe that she is in a relationship with him. That would explain why he doesn’t want Shekina’s presence on his social media and why he fears that would lead to “stalking”.

    It’s one thing to have previous one night stands come forth. He has already admitted such to Shekina. But it’s a whole different thing to have women who believe that they are in an ongoing relationship with him come forth.