I give up. This is stupid and it’s honestly turned into y’all tearing apart a truly traumatic experience In my life for the sake of being politically correct or holier than though or feeling superior. I thought it was fucked up he took her dog. If half of you had to say face to face to me what you have said here I don’t think you would say it. I revealed a history where an abusive ex took advantage of me financially, manipulated me, cheated on me with sex workers, tried to take my dog and then threatened to sue me over it and somehow I’m offensive. Cool, dudes 🤗
Of course she should have told him from the jump but it it much safer for her to have told him in the US than Moldova. That being said, weaponizing the truth like that is waaaaay fucked up.