“Don’t have your wedding while we are on vacation” = “They hate me”
“Are you allowed to work with your visa?” = “They hate me because I am not American”
“I found lipgloss in Gino’s car” = “He must be cheating as only a woman who is sleeping with Gino has lipgloss”
Maybe it could have been worded nicer, I edited it for comedic effect, but I think that seeing as she didn’t have a date yet she shouldn’t have jumped to the conclusion that she is “taking orders”, I have written messages like that when I am on the phone or doing something because I don’t want to forget.
As for the visa thing, again, I edited it for comedic effect. No, that wasn’t racist of them. A little confrontational and entitled but it is their country. Xenophobic perhaps?