I can’t decide who is more ridiculous out of this couple. Justin is a transphobic dating a trans woman. It is obvious he is repulsed by her. Nikki not only looks ridikkulous but is not right in the head for dating a transphobic guy and then thinks it somehow socially acceptable to meet his friends and immediately start complaining to them that Justin won’t eat her out. Kudos to the friend standing at the bar listening to all this without barfing into her drink.

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    10 months ago

    This 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 thank you. I’m seriously surprised there isn’t more uproar about this. To me I was completely shocked and mortified when Nikki said that she kept that from him until they got into a fight, then pretty much just threw it in his face like “well guess what? I used to be a man!” Like that’s some sort of joke. If I was a young guy I would be absolutely traumatized by that bc that is such a huge deception and betrayal, and I really do consider that a form of sexual assault. Nikki can say “I just didn’t want to feel rejected”. Well igor/Justin should have at least had the option or opportunity to make that decision. Absolutely terrible

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      10 months ago

      Lol exactly having sex with someone and not telling them your real sex is sexual assault

      In my country a few people have been murdered because of this it’s not because they are trans they have slept with men and not disclosed

      Later they find out and bad shit happens

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      10 months ago

      YES. THIS. What I really want are the details of the argument that led up to her spilling the secret. Was it an argument over dishes, or was it him saying he didn’t want to be with her for whatever reason and her going full nuclear on his ass.

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        10 months ago

        I remember reading that the argument had something to do with them differing on what they considered gender roles when he came to the US on the K1 Visa. Nikki accused Igor of being lazy and not helping with the housework and apparently when he replied something like it was “woman’s work” she snapped and told him that she used to be a man.

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          10 months ago

          That’s wild.

          My ex-husband was stationed overseas for a year. There was an incident where someone a few bases over went out into town and picked up a girl. Only to find out later it was a man. The guy beat the shit out of the trans woman when he found out. I don’t remember the exact details of it, but he may have even killed her. It didn’t even happen at the base my ex was on, but no one was allowed to go out into town for a good long while after this happened.

          It’s just crazy to me to put yourself in a situation like that when you absolutely don’t know how someone is going to react to what they’re hearing. That’s not a small thing to drop in someone’s lap, and Nikki just shrugs it off and almost laughs.

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      10 months ago

      It absolutely is sexual assault. Anyone who disagrees needs to listen to/watch the whole scenario again. I asked my husband what he would do if someone did that to him at that age… he said the first thing he’d do would probably be to cry & I don’t blame him OR Igor. That doesn’t make them transphobic… it means the person values honesty and bodily autonomy… (which EVERYONE should 🤷🏼‍♀️)

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      If I was a young guy I would be absolutely traumatized by that bc that is such a huge deception and betrayal, and I really do consider that a form of sexual assault.

      But she told him before she arrived. Most likely years ago.

      Dude didn’t refuse her money.