This season of 90 Fiance is the second one I’m watching, which means it’s also my first time seeing returnees such as Kenny and Armando and Yohan and Danielle. My partner, who is a big fan and has watched all seasons, told me Danielle was horrible in her first one. I don’t know to what extend, but is it really a big enough reason for the community to constantly defend Yohan and say she deserves everything happening to her?
I personally have no sympathy for Yohan, he is an entitled little boy that doesn’t understand how life in a relationship/not living at mom’s work, that wants everything right now, right here, as if money was falling from trees. He’s clearly with her entirely for the money and it makes me sad for her.
Not saying Danielle may not be bad herself, again, I don’t know anything form her outside of that season, but can’t we at least settle with “they’re both terrible” instead of making it look like Yohan’s behaviour is completely fair and justified.
Imagine an Americann man in the opposite direction tell a girl from the DR they can’t leave with their clothes because “he bought them.” I’d take the fucking dog I paid for too. There’s dozens of controlling and demeaning instances like that that make it really hard to feel sorry for her, but mainly it’s the fact it was a transactional relationship and she lied about her end of the deal just like Jorge did with Anfisa. Anfisa was the perfect villain, but she kept it real.
Right! Daniele uses her money to control her relationship with yohan. He’ll never make any amount of money in the DR that equals to what she’s saved/made here in the US or even there in the DR, but demands he pay half?! Just switch their roles and don’t bring being a woman into this shit. She financially abuses him by withholding money. Their TLC checks are probably deposited only in her account, so they’ve had about 2 years of TLC money together, you’re telling me he can’t use your atm card to pull $140 out of any of that money without waiting for you to bless him with access to it?! Ridiculous
She’s too worried about people judging her for trusting him. Her friends were negging her relationship from the very beginning and now she’s super skeptical too. She said a green card “takes trust” – but you’re trying to make an entire baby??? Wtf