I’m a teacher from the same area and trust me it is not an uncommon personality for New Yorkers. She probably had good classroom management, but I think she couldn’t drop that work persona to save her life. You can’t bring that bossy energy home to your partner. Unfortunately, there are many men being treated like kindergarteners.
I remember seeing Angela say that she was getting cold in the hot tub and I was wondering was the hot tub not hot?