I’ve been watching the OG 90 day fiance and older seasons of happily ever after.

Idk why but Russ’ and Pao’s relationship stood out to me the most. I know they’ve been loooong gone and not even on the show But Pao and Russ equally irk me lol. I know the met in Colombia, fell in love and all but then reality hit when she came to the US as it does with most couples.

But omg her failed modeling career. Pao… I’m like girl give it up. Sorry. Not that shes ugly but she was sooo gullible especially towards that agent. She was deff a finesser. I’m sorry but blond was not the way to go. She should’ve remained Natural. But whatever. Then making pao do all those photo shoots that went nowhere, taking her to those parties, telling her to bartend lol… I can’t. Also, let’s not forget that cheap ass music video in the hotel room.

And then Russ constantly getting upset with her being flashy. I go back and forth on this because people said he was controlling. So idk.

All in all, I know Russ had to sacrifice A LOT for her. Moved out of the parents house sooner than expected (eh I don’t blame them). But then moved to OKC. Then Miami. Then he could never keep a job. I’m like damn. Usually it’s like “ok I found a job here this is where the money is at let’s go” People also argued like “oh but she is trying to pursue her dreams as a model why can’t he follow her around” bc that career was not sustainable. Russ prob knew from the jump. I think Pao should’ve just tried different jobs other than modeling or anything that involved her “looks”

Then I know they had their son, separated for a bit proceeded to live in an RV then bought a house lol

I know they have somewhat of a YouTube channel that doesn’t get much views. I wonder why they didn’t continue with the show? Messy messy. lol

  • jgc864@alien.topBEnglish
    1·
    10 months ago

    Remember when she went super psycho and didn’t want anyone touching her baby, including Russ?

  • coreysgal@alien.topBEnglish
    1·
    10 months ago

    Well, thankfully, she has her big-time wrestling career now that her high-end modeling days are over, lol. I think the issue w Russ’ jobs were that it sounded like contracts. So he’d fly off and live where he worked, possibly with employer housing. Once he got married, that was harder bc she wanted the glam life, and his industry required you to be where the action is. Similar, I think to Jovi, who has to be gone a few weeks at a time, although I think Russ’ job was more oil-related.

    • LaMadreDelCantante@alien.topBEnglish
      1·
      10 months ago

      To be fair, I don’t blame her for the part where she didn’t want to live basically in a cornfield. Especially with no friends or family around and a whole new country. I would lose my mind.

  • AlisonPoole98@alien.topBEnglish
    1·
    10 months ago

    I was so happy they stopped showing them. I thought Pao’s eyes were going to roll out of her head every time he spoke. She kinda ran off to Miami and couldn’t care less how Russ felt about it. Didn’t she have a toxic little friend that hated Russ and she never defended him?

  • PurplePetal04@alien.topBEnglish
    1·
    10 months ago

    I didn’t like Pao or Loren’s Mean Girls vibe during S1’s Tell Too Much ( looking at you Danielle) nor did I like her attitude and behavior when she was with her male best friend in Columbia or when that same friend visited her in a Miami. She was so intolerable. But they seem to be doing fine the last time I read anything about them, so that’s nice.

  • isaberre@alien.topBEnglish
    1·
    10 months ago

    those Miami photos were embarrassingly bad for someone as beautiful as she is. it’s like she picked only wrong angles for her face and body. not that the photographer was good either, but yeesh

  • candyspelling01@alien.topBEnglish
    1·
    10 months ago

    I thought of Pao and how she begged to move to Miami. Made me think of Jasmine and Gino. You know Jasmine won’t be in Michigan that long.

  • Ok_Plankton9224@alien.topBEnglish
    1·
    10 months ago

    I like them but Russ knew who he was marrying, I can’t remember if it was before or after their union of love (eyeroll), when she got her boobs painted for a calendar

  • Epicurate@alien.topBEnglish
    1·
    10 months ago

    If only the US had any places with oil jobs for Russ AND a Latin community for Pao 😢