He was a dick from the moment Debbie stepped out to the parking lot. Inviting her to the bar should never have happened.
My suspicion is that he already knew she was Omni-man’s wife, and just wanted to fuck with her.
I actually think he was trying to hit on her. One of his big sticking points when he was talking to the group was waking up in an empty bed, after all. Plus, the way he phrased it, as a bar a couple of the group go to after meetings, implied it wouldn’t be just them, but it was, and that’s SUPER fucking manipulative. I think that, either way you slice it, this dude is a creep, and a victim-blaming douche canoe. A grieving Victim-Blaming Douche Canoe, but a Victim-Blaming Douche Canoe none the less.
This is the opinion I was looking for. I think there’s a big distinction between acting like a dick and being a dick. Its completely reasonable that a good person could have this reaction if blinded by grief. Now he really could be a dick, but I don’t think that you can come to that conclusion from this one event.
I think he had an emotional outburst and that’s not reflective of who he really is. I’d say that he acted like a dick but he probably isn’t one.
There’s a reason there were rules…
He was a dick from the moment Debbie stepped out to the parking lot. Inviting her to the bar should never have happened. My suspicion is that he already knew she was Omni-man’s wife, and just wanted to fuck with her.
I actually think he was trying to hit on her. One of his big sticking points when he was talking to the group was waking up in an empty bed, after all. Plus, the way he phrased it, as a bar a couple of the group go to after meetings, implied it wouldn’t be just them, but it was, and that’s SUPER fucking manipulative. I think that, either way you slice it, this dude is a creep, and a victim-blaming douche canoe. A grieving Victim-Blaming Douche Canoe, but a Victim-Blaming Douche Canoe none the less.
This is the opinion I was looking for. I think there’s a big distinction between acting like a dick and being a dick. Its completely reasonable that a good person could have this reaction if blinded by grief. Now he really could be a dick, but I don’t think that you can come to that conclusion from this one event.
I mean, I think he was very clearly hitting on her the first day of therapy.
Even if he wasn’t, dude came on a little strong