I can’t tell if the producers are just picking couples that have major secrets for the drama. But I can’t imagine being in a long-distance relationship in which all you can do is talk on the phone — and yet when you start the 90 days you are only just finding out major life details about your partner??

  • Gino didn’t tell Jasmine about quitting
  • Jasmine lied about the butt implants
  • Nikki only admitted she was trans during a fight
  • Sophie hadn’t told Rob about her ovary cyst surgery
  • Ashley didn’t tell her fiancé she was a witch
  • Her partner (sorry forgot his name but would never forget Rico MFing Suave) lied to his family about where he was

There might be more as I’m only a few episodes in. It’s just odd to me because I could never keep major life events like that to myself in a relationship. Is that just more normal than I realise??

  • sowhat_noonecares@alien.topB
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    I wonder this ALL THE TIME! I recently got divorced and started dating for the first time in many years. And I tell them the deal breakers from the beginning. I do have a boyfriend now and I can’t have anymore kids, and I don’t want to get married again. So, I told him that up front as well as we have discussed it multiple times since. I remind him, “Make SURE you don’t want a child if you want to be with me.” Lol I think a lot of the people on the show are not very emotionally mature or intelligent if I’m honest. They’re “in LOVE” with this person they really hardly know! It’s insane. But, that’s why we watch. Isn’t it? 😂

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      1 year ago

      I’m in my early 30s and I have been doing this for years. If we aren’t on the same page, there’s no reason to continue.