I get the impression of all the current to recent 90 day fiance couples they are the ones most duping us, or creating fake drama or fake problems in their relationship that don’t exist, to keep getting series. Seeing their social media, and stories, it is hard to believe they have relationship problems anywhere near as big as potrayed on TV. Good for them, they look at 90 day fiance as a business apparently, and are making good. Their storyline feels as fake as The Hills at times.

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    1 year ago

    Maybe, they seem to have some sense of stability. Though, alcoholism and strip clubs were a source of contention between them very early into the relationship, seen from the earlier seasons. I think Jovi was and is underprepared for the lifestyle that is fatherhood and marriage. And plus having 1 parent gone for weeks to months at a time with a toddler at home does not make for a happy relationship. So, I tend to believe their problems are genuine, mostly because Jovi’s an a hole.

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    1 year ago

    I thought the entire thing was fake until the kalani and asuelo thing. So their issues weren’t fake and actually being hidden just bits and pieces being allowed out for the show. So now I honestly don’t know.

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    1 year ago

    Yara’s acting in last week’s episode was really bad when Jovie was leaving the hotel room. It was obvious she was told what lines to say.

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    1 year ago

    they probably have some, almost every couple has some, but a lot is so obviously scripted. its mostly for money

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    My opinion is Jovi has a legit drinking problem. He also appears to have an unhealthy obsession with strip clubs. I really dont know what Yara is doing with him at this point. I see her eventually leaving and finding someone who will treat her much better. Their relationship seems doomed to me, at least from what has been portrayed on the show anyway. I like Yara. At first I thought she was a real biatch but she has grown on me and I honestly feel bad for her having to deal with the drunken husband all the time. It must get old!

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    1 year ago

    I think it has to be fake. How could he say “don’t tell the girls” but then take a camera crew? They are filming a tv show. Regardless of whether Ed or Liz said anything, Yara would have found out eventually. He wasn’t secretly filmed.

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    1 year ago

    I’m guessing it’s mainly for ratings. They have issues most likely but the stuff on tv is probably staged

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    1 year ago

    Jovi and Yara have problems regardless of whether or not they think they do.

    He is very very very clearly an alcoholic. It’s not editing. It’s not faked. That dude is a straight up alcoholic and you can tell from a thousand miles away.

    Best of luck to them

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      1 year ago

      I think Jovi doesnt think hes an alcoholic or possibly just a problem drinker because he CAN go a month without drinking while hes out at sea. But unfortunately alcoholism comes in many shapes and sizes.

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      As much as I dislike him, Ed had a valid point with Yara and Jovi only thinking about what their relationship looked like on the outside. They have problems as many couples do. They seem to have an inability to communicate honestly with each other. Jovi more so than Yara. Seems like Jovi refuses to address things or discuss them to the degree they need to be.

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      He has a drinking problem and a stripper problem. I’ve dated a guy who always went out drinking. All we did together was drink! I got tired of it and his behavior so I had to end it. His drinking problem shows in his face and physically. My ex is in his late 20’s he’s starting to look older.

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    1 year ago

    Instagram is NOT the way to judge anyone’s relationship or happiness. That being said, I do think it is mostly fake. If it isn’t then Yara is insane for staying. She can find someone way better for her family…

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    They had these very issues before they got married. The signs were all there, not that I’m shaming Yara. I remember when he got too drunk at their engagement party and Yara was upset cuz Jovi was acting like a frat douche.

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    1 year ago

    I think those are real problems and conflicts they have. But are making it seem exponentially larger than it really is, anytime there is a 90DF camera around.