Jovi likes the strip club because it’s a safe haven to do coke! Jovi is the guy who never wants the party to end and I’d bet money his m.o. in the club is to book a VIP room and do coke all night 😂 I think he’s being honest when he says it’s not about the strippers, but he’s not saying the REAL reason he likes the club. And that’s why Yara is (rightly so) confused af about why he won’t stop going.
I don’t understand people who get married and have kids knowing they don’t want that life.
Honestly, I think there are men who like having a wife and a family but don’t really want to be involved with being an active husband be father. He likes the safety of having someone to come home to.
This became more apparent to me in their relationship when he is actively trying to force Yara to have another child and she’s said on more than one occasion that she doesn’t want a second child and he doesn’t want to compromise to be home more to be with his family.
My husband works with a ton of these guys. They love to be traveling because they hate their wives and families. They’re always encouraging him to travel constantly. He would rather be with us though.
Did he want a child?
In all fairness, Myla was not a planned pregnancy. And Jovi candidly admitted that he would have never proposed to Yara had she not gotten pregnant the first time (when she later miscarried before their 90 days began).
I get the sense that Jovi fell into both this marriage and pregnancy. I think the entire second kid discussion is less about Jovi wanting more kids/a traditional family life, and more about keeping Yara trapped at home, while he does whatever the fuck he wants while on his work trips.