I’m getting really sick of watching Nikki. I was excited to get to see a trans woman on this show, but Jesus is she fucking annoying.

The constant pressuring Justin for sex is gross. Seriously, if this was the other way around Justin would get so much shit for constantly asking her for sex. The fact that she just changed his name for aesthetic purposes is wild. The constant pressuring him and pushing him is kind of a lot.

But it all just boils down to her constantly never be satisfied with things unless she is 100% getting her way. She doesn’t compromise. It’s either her way or the highway, and there is no middle ground. For someone who constantly wants other people to accept her for who she is, she never returns that acceptance for anyone.

You think differently than her? Too bad. You don’t want to talk about something? Too bad. You don’t like something and it makes you uncomfortable? Deal with it. It’s very hypocritical and getting to be unbearable to watch.

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    As others have said this lady literally erased Igor’s name cause it wasn’t cute in her mind. Talk about not accepting people, filthy, classless idiot.

    Also, this shit is kind of personal for me cause I’m freaking Russian. Igor is not playing when he says Nikki’s behavior is potentially dangerous. Russia is notoriously dangerous for LGBT populations with state endorsed stonings during Pride Parades, this lady is very much underestimating her risk in Moldova.

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      I 100% agree. Nikki absolutely has NO idea how Moldova is, and my God, Nikki, has NO idea how rare Igor is for a Moldovan man! Moldova is extremely conservative, and women are to respect their men and raise a family and keep buisness behind closed doors. I was shocked when she asked Igor’s friends wife what she did at the bar when Nikki asked her to go to escort her to the “bathroom”. Nikki absolutely will NOT respect Igor’s culture and definitely will NOT respect Igor!

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        I think Igor is so sweet and respectful of her. He also has some really great friends. I really hope he doesn’t stay with her, he deserves so much better.

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      And another example of Americans who don’t study the culture of the country they are going to visit. Don’t get me wrong totally some do the research (Avery, Gabe, Jenny/Summit, Corey?, Kenny/Armando, Bilal/Rasheeda) but most do not and the relationship is on the rocks from the beginning and usually does not work out. This is a very small subset of the couples that have been on the show. sad

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        I was just going to say the same, she’s just another one who has not bothered to learn, research, study the countries customs, traditions & attitudes. They seem to think they can go to another country & things will be the same as it is in the USA it isn’t, & no they won’t change their whole culture just because you say so.

        There are countries in the world where being gay, is illegal, where that will land you in prison or worse. There are countries where to be a woman makes you invisible, where you are property, where it is acceptable to have you murdered because you won’t do as your told.

        Why do you not research the place you are going to?

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        I was just going to say the same, she’s just another one who has not bothered to learn, research, study the countries customs, traditions & attitudes. They seem to think they can go to another country & things will be the same as it is in the USA it isn’t, & no they won’t change their whole culture just because you say so.

        There are countries in the world where being gay, is illegal, where that will land you in prison or worse. There are countries where to be a woman makes you invisible, where you are property, where it is acceptable to have you murdered because you won’t do as your told.

        Why do you not research the place you are going to?

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      She didn’t just change his name (because Igor reminded her of Frankenstein’s assistant - she probably was afraid of jokes of her being Frankenstein!), she changed it to an American name! She had no business changing it, but she could have at least changed it to another Moldovan name!

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        Yeah absolutely. That’s what I was alluding to that he may be ostracized after the show is over and he does not capitalize on the ‘fame’.

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      Likeeeee! So offensive that she did the typical American “I’m gonna call you this bc I like it better,” totally erasing his identity to suit her.

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      Exactly! Im originally from Russia and agree with everything you said 👏👏. Nikki is extremely ignorant thinking she can go to any country and act any way she wants.