I’m getting really sick of watching Nikki. I was excited to get to see a trans woman on this show, but Jesus is she fucking annoying.

The constant pressuring Justin for sex is gross. Seriously, if this was the other way around Justin would get so much shit for constantly asking her for sex. The fact that she just changed his name for aesthetic purposes is wild. The constant pressuring him and pushing him is kind of a lot.

But it all just boils down to her constantly never be satisfied with things unless she is 100% getting her way. She doesn’t compromise. It’s either her way or the highway, and there is no middle ground. For someone who constantly wants other people to accept her for who she is, she never returns that acceptance for anyone.

You think differently than her? Too bad. You don’t want to talk about something? Too bad. You don’t like something and it makes you uncomfortable? Deal with it. It’s very hypocritical and getting to be unbearable to watch.

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    10 months ago

    She’s been on at least 3 other reality shows. This is all fakery. Her final shot at fame. I don’t think they are together. I think they broke up 10 years ago, she realized she could use him for 90 Day Fiance, contacted him to ask him to be on TV with her. They decided to fake it all so she could finally get the fame she wanted.

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    10 months ago

    I will probably get dogpiled for this, but here goes. The name thing is one of the least nefarious things she does. Igor isn’t a common Western name, and like many names you may not like it, and/or feel awkward using it. Yes, if that is their name, tough shit, but nuance exists. It isn’t unheard of to give your partner nicknames, play with it etc. If HE is fine with it, then w/e. If he expresses otherwise it is different. Some people don’t give a shit what you call them, some do.

    Unless you’re purposely deadnaming, I see no issue.

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    10 months ago

    Unfortunately she fits the mold of so many Americans on this show: they seem to think the world should bend to them, and all their issues.

    I dislike how pushy and manipulative she is, the fact that she throws a stop every time Igor tries to lighten the mood or do something that is communicating beyond sex, like the park date. But that isn’t the worst part; the worst part is that she, as you say, treats him like an accessory to her rather shallow life.

    Whether Igor stays or goes to the US, Nikki is going to have to accept that being with him won’t fix her. She needs to understand that love involves peace, communication, understanding and patience. All the things she seems to think are good qualities in the relationship (his looks) are going to cause problems; how will she react when women 20 years younger than her are hitting on him?

    In Nikki’s defense, Igor doesn’t seem to be able to make up his mind if he is attracted to her. And he should do that fast and let her get on with her life.

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    10 months ago

    Nikki complains that Igor isn’t attracted to her constantly but when they were clothes shopping and he was saying what he liked to see on a woman Nikki just cut him off and turned down everything.

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    10 months ago

    I don’t think she realises how dangerous it can be in Eastern Europe for gay people and those who associate with them, let alone trans folk. She’s putting herself out there and in reality she’s in a position where she needs to be doing the exact opposite.

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    10 months ago

    Anybody else get the vibe that she was incredibly spoiled as a child, would throw a fit and get whatever she wanted from her parents? This is the vibe I get and it’s a really bad look for an adult.

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    10 months ago

    I don’t know how he deals with her. I understand she owns him and he’s accustomed to the lifestyle she has afforded him, but c’mon! I don’t think he’s enjoying this decision. And she can’t dress decent for one day! He’s not asking for a kidney, just her in a modest fashion for the night. I truly believe he thought he could deal with her being trans, but he just can’t get that out his mind.

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      10 months ago

      Well he would prolly be able to process things if she wouldn’t bring up the trans thing and give me sex now all the time. That has to be very difficult to seal with while trying to process feelings

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        10 months ago

        I feel bad for the guy. She thinks he’s belittling her with jokes, but I think he’s trying to lighten the mood. She’s always mad about something.

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        10 months ago

        I feel bad for the guy. She thinks he’s belittling her with jokes, but I think he’s trying to lighten the mood. She’s always mad about something.

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    10 months ago

    She’s the type of person to walk through a door, get hers, and close it behind her. Selfish narcissist

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    10 months ago

    Igor should have turned the car around and dropped her off so she could pack (she keeps threatening to go back to America every time she doesn’t like something). No amount of money is worth her bullshit.

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    10 months ago

    As annoying as she is, I get it. She’s insecure and should probably go to therapy, but she wants validation and Justin won’t offer it to her. Justin should just let her go.

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    10 months ago

    i mean… have you seen the things shes written to/about other trans people? Shes not a nice girl