I’m getting really sick of watching Nikki. I was excited to get to see a trans woman on this show, but Jesus is she fucking annoying.
The constant pressuring Justin for sex is gross. Seriously, if this was the other way around Justin would get so much shit for constantly asking her for sex. The fact that she just changed his name for aesthetic purposes is wild. The constant pressuring him and pushing him is kind of a lot.
But it all just boils down to her constantly never be satisfied with things unless she is 100% getting her way. She doesn’t compromise. It’s either her way or the highway, and there is no middle ground. For someone who constantly wants other people to accept her for who she is, she never returns that acceptance for anyone.
You think differently than her? Too bad. You don’t want to talk about something? Too bad. You don’t like something and it makes you uncomfortable? Deal with it. It’s very hypocritical and getting to be unbearable to watch.
Unfortunately she fits the mold of so many Americans on this show: they seem to think the world should bend to them, and all their issues.
I dislike how pushy and manipulative she is, the fact that she throws a stop every time Igor tries to lighten the mood or do something that is communicating beyond sex, like the park date. But that isn’t the worst part; the worst part is that she, as you say, treats him like an accessory to her rather shallow life.
Whether Igor stays or goes to the US, Nikki is going to have to accept that being with him won’t fix her. She needs to understand that love involves peace, communication, understanding and patience. All the things she seems to think are good qualities in the relationship (his looks) are going to cause problems; how will she react when women 20 years younger than her are hitting on him?
In Nikki’s defense, Igor doesn’t seem to be able to make up his mind if he is attracted to her. And he should do that fast and let her get on with her life.