Don’t ever let someone gaslight you into thinking what Rob the Knob did to Sophie was any less dishonest or selfish than physical cheating is. Physical cheating just hurts most of us in a different way. He didn’t do her any favors by soliciting inappropriate videos from women. He still snuck around behind her back and had sexual interactions with other people… twice. Ultimately, you decide what cheating is in your relationship, but please, don’t believe this “it could’ve been worse 🤷♂️” bullshit.
And maybe slam the door in the face of someone who shows up to apologize with a single rose… for cheating the 2nd time. You could probably do worse 🤷♀️
It’s not porn. If he was going on some random porn site and watching videos I doubt she would care. He was sexting women. Big difference between watching random videos and having conversations with women who then send him dirty videos etc. he’s emotionally cheating on his fiance.