Don’t ever let someone gaslight you into thinking what Rob the Knob did to Sophie was any less dishonest or selfish than physical cheating is. Physical cheating just hurts most of us in a different way. He didn’t do her any favors by soliciting inappropriate videos from women. He still snuck around behind her back and had sexual interactions with other people… twice. Ultimately, you decide what cheating is in your relationship, but please, don’t believe this “it could’ve been worse 🤷‍♂️” bullshit.

And maybe slam the door in the face of someone who shows up to apologize with a single rose… for cheating the 2nd time. You could probably do worse 🤷‍♀️

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    10 months ago

    omg he creeped me tf out. so immature and tactless. his friend as well.

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    10 months ago

    She should’ve interpreted that as she’s not really important to him. She made it clear if he did it again she’d be done, and he was willing to risk that. I hate that she forgave him, but he’s taking advantage of her naïveté. If she was a bit older or wiser, she would’ve never gotten with him to begin with. He brings nothing but grief.

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    10 months ago

    For it to happen one time, I could see talking it over extensively and trying to work back trust. The second time? So disrespectful considering she DID express how much it hurt her. No excuses, second time should have been the final straw. I’m glad they’re not making him look good at all on the show he doesn’t deserve it. Hope she gets the strength to leave his ass.

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      10 months ago

      I agree. Once can be forgiven, but twice and it’s clearly an issue.

      I’m glad they’re not making him look good at all on the show he doesn’t deserve it.

      I’m glad they aren’t either, but holy shit can you imagine what a douche he must be for this to be true? TLC always seems to show the biggest assholes in the best light they can, but this idiot… it’s like even they can’t stand him. 😂

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        10 months ago

        I would loveeee to see the producers behind the scene purposefully making him look bad because he deserves it. Idk Sophie’s intentions but she genuinely comes off so nice on how they’ve edited it. I don’t agree with influencers lifestyles but I’m rooting for her! She’s like asking the bare minimum and he can’t do it

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        10 months ago

        I would loveeee to see the producers behind the scene purposefully making him look bad because he deserves it. Idk Sophie’s intentions but she genuinely comes off so nice on how they’ve edited it. I don’t agree with influencers lifestyles but I’m rooting for her! She’s like asking the bare minimum and he can’t do it

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    Too late. I’ve been there and done that. But it was a HUGE learning experience for me and I’ve learned to recognize it and never let it happen to me again. Watching this is like watching what I went through all over again and it breaks my heart. I just hope that Sophie can come out of this and learn from it as well.

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      10 months ago

      I believe she will. She’s a smart and capable woman with at least some good support in her mom. She knows what she should do, but like you and I (assuming), she feels trapped and is blinded by his manipulation or what she’s interpreting as “love”. She has lots of time to figure it out still.

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    10 months ago

    If some person was sending my husband naked pics and videos that would 100% be cheating to me

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    10 months ago

    I could not believe she took him back, zero self esteem. I feel for her and this shitty decision.

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    10 months ago

    Can you imagine what he would do if SHE was soliciting dick pics and sending back herself wanking to them?

    He is so underwhelming, such a loser… I can’t believe she’s interested in him or even falling for his manipulation… he’s less than mediocre

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    10 months ago

    The only think he’s sorry about is getting caught. Since life is all about him and his needs.

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    10 months ago

    He seems like an explosive narcissist. She should run cause he will do it again and blame her.

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    10 months ago

    When she was sitting crying and saying what do I do now?? I was shouting at the TV “Come back home babes!” Fly your ‘boujee’ ass back to London we got you here. Let’s normalise indoor plumbing for you again.

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    10 months ago

    omg he creeped me tf out. so immature and tactless. his friend as well.