Don’t ever let someone gaslight you into thinking what Rob the Knob did to Sophie was any less dishonest or selfish than physical cheating is. Physical cheating just hurts most of us in a different way. He didn’t do her any favors by soliciting inappropriate videos from women. He still snuck around behind her back and had sexual interactions with other people… twice. Ultimately, you decide what cheating is in your relationship, but please, don’t believe this “it could’ve been worse 🤷♂️” bullshit.
And maybe slam the door in the face of someone who shows up to apologize with a single rose… for cheating the 2nd time. You could probably do worse 🤷♀️
Honestly, I think she’s pretty mature for her age. She’s doing really well when it comes to voicing her concerns and demanding what she needs from him if she’s to stay. She’s light years away compared to myself and so many of the women that I know at her age. She failed at stepping away from the relationship, but at her age, so many others would have caved a lot faster, without processing the gaslighting that he’s attempting.