“I only slept with you before him. You realize, right? So yes, it’s a big deal for me to sleep with somebody else who’s not my husband, so I had to keep a connection with him.” Make it make sense. That’s her rationale??? And we call (rightfully) Aseulo a bit dense?
He did it over and over during the marriage, during her pregnancies, until she finally had enough. How is he getting a pass and Kalani the asshole here?
He actually didn’t. He was doing some things online sort of thing, not anything in real life. Not excusing him, but he did not have any physical affairs per Kalani since he came to the US. And what he did do was in Samoa before they were a committed couple.
He literally got a yeast infection in his mouth, and you think that was from “online sort of things”?? HAHAHAH
Who gave him a pass ? Comment we’re replying to says they’re both mentally adolescent… it’s a given he sucks… but ol dial a dick is ALSO wrong. She continues the victim narrative.The real victims are their kids who have watch their dad treat their mom terribly in front of the world, and their mom go hoe mode on national television. Her own sister agrees with me.
people like to pretend that if you dont call him out in the same breath you do her then you are excusing him
Agreed, abuse is more than physical - this is class Mental Abuse. She deserves so much better then being treated like some jump off.
True. That said, she allegedly agreed to participate in the Last Resort in a good faith effort to save her marriage. I could have forgiven her for simply unblocking the guy. But blatantly having a booty call with the dick on the side while attending couples therapy is other level and just wrong. Full stop. And what does that say about the character of the guy?
you do realize that throughout the process of therapy sometimes a client unpacks/learns something about themselves and their framework that changes their outlook and approach, and that this can actually be healthy and good for all parties? they’re regularly seeing therapists at this retreat ordeal; it’s not like therapists are like oh when you first came here you said you want xyz what happened to saving your marriage no matter what. Unless you go to very specific and often religious therapists/counselors, the goal of therapy is to have the client feel like they’re informed and strong enough to make their own decisions. this is her decision. as for the flying him in part, whatever, that’s total TLC pageantry.
Jeez! the Kalani apologists and enablers are out in full force. Do you really think any therapist thinks is it’s ok or healthy to dial dick to a group therapy session… ? It seems like divorce (how about say after 1 or 2 times cheating?!) would’ve been a better look than calling the Dicksmith over for a dicking and leaving the kids with sister. Takes a whole lot of mental gymnastics for either of these morons to be correct. They should’ve focused on the therapy
Is sounds like he was doing all of his “cheating” online except for the woman he got a yeast infection from. Auselo doesn’t get a pass, but neither does Kalani. I don’t get why people are acting like cheating is ever justified. Leave your partner if you are going to cheat. You don’t get a pass to cheat because you were cheated on.