They said early on in this season that she lived in India for a year before deciding to move there permanently to be with TJ. Did people not see where she said that the things she chose for the apartment construction were not what she picked out before she left? Why is everyone saying she should have researched the culture? I’m pretty sure living there for a year can equal to doing some research on the internet.
I’m also guessing that much in the way of everyone that promised their foreign partner a ton of things, TJ promised that she wouldn’t have to do all the stuff that would be expected of her. He’d somehow magically work it out with the family. Sure. That happened.