They said early on in this season that she lived in India for a year before deciding to move there permanently to be with TJ. Did people not see where she said that the things she chose for the apartment construction were not what she picked out before she left? Why is everyone saying she should have researched the culture? I’m pretty sure living there for a year can equal to doing some research on the internet.

  • BlouseBarn@alien.topBEnglish
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    1 year ago

    There’s definitely a lot of internalized misogyny on this sub. I know it because I used to have a lot of it myself (I think all women have at least a little because patriarchy). Then I learned to do better, so I did better. It’s been a lifelong process for me, though, and I’m by no means perfect. Still, I was in denial for a long time too, so I get it, to some extent. Just don’t stay there.

    • originalschmidt@alien.topBEnglish
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      1 year ago

      Yeah, I definitely feel like I have worked through all of my internal misogyny and I just hate how woman can be to each other!!! We should be holding each other up not tearing each other down

    • Acrobatic_Low1398@alien.topBEnglish
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      1 year ago

      I think my issue with her is how arrogant she sounded almost immediately. It has nothing to do with misogyny but disliking anyone who speaks like that. For me it’s not that she reacts to something’s as I understand the frustration but it’s how she speaks about them.