But my dislike for her began almost immediately. It wasn’t how she reacted to all the stuff in India but she spoke in a very high and mighty type of way instantly. I get some of the responses she’s had although I think she’s a bit immature with all the faces she pulls. I fully blame TJ for all that he lied about and tricking her into getting married before starting to be honest. But his horrible actions don’t negate the arrogance she speaks with. I think one of the biggest issues in these forms is everyone’s way of over generalizing. It leads to a lot of misunderstandings due to not clearly and specifically talking about what they mean. I’m sure it is also a lack of thinking through what people are saying. Cuz because I do t like her and think she’s nuts doesn’t mean I blame her. Those are two different conversations. I just think she let herself get swept up instead of really pressing for more information. She still wouldn’t have gotten the whole truth but she could have caught on to more red flags.
I think my issue with her is how arrogant she sounded almost immediately. It has nothing to do with misogyny but disliking anyone who speaks like that. For me it’s not that she reacts to something’s as I understand the frustration but it’s how she speaks about them.