They said early on in this season that she lived in India for a year before deciding to move there permanently to be with TJ. Did people not see where she said that the things she chose for the apartment construction were not what she picked out before she left? Why is everyone saying she should have researched the culture? I’m pretty sure living there for a year can equal to doing some research on the internet.
I think we have to remember that production drives the bus, and they probably plot ways for the families to come up with obscure traditions, foods, events that aren’t necessarily something they do but are gross enough to upset someone. I cannot imagine allowing anyone to bring manure and urine into my home as a blessing. It’s unsanitary and disgusting and I would have stopped them both any asked them to leave. I also couldn’t understand why the brother was always in the middle of decisions and why the husband didn’t tell his brother to stay out of their business.