They said early on in this season that she lived in India for a year before deciding to move there permanently to be with TJ. Did people not see where she said that the things she chose for the apartment construction were not what she picked out before she left? Why is everyone saying she should have researched the culture? I’m pretty sure living there for a year can equal to doing some research on the internet.
But my dislike for her began almost immediately. It wasn’t how she reacted to all the stuff in India but she spoke in a very high and mighty type of way instantly. I get some of the responses she’s had although I think she’s a bit immature with all the faces she pulls. I fully blame TJ for all that he lied about and tricking her into getting married before starting to be honest. But his horrible actions don’t negate the arrogance she speaks with. I think one of the biggest issues in these forms is everyone’s way of over generalizing. It leads to a lot of misunderstandings due to not clearly and specifically talking about what they mean. I’m sure it is also a lack of thinking through what people are saying. Cuz because I do t like her and think she’s nuts doesn’t mean I blame her. Those are two different conversations. I just think she let herself get swept up instead of really pressing for more information. She still wouldn’t have gotten the whole truth but she could have caught on to more red flags.
I think she gets caught up pressing for more information because it’s already soo difficult for her to get info from TJ. She can definitely be a bit over confident at times but idk I’m getting a feminist energy from her and I sometimes find myself doing the same in an attempt to match a male energy, kind of an “I can do that too” kinda way so I guess I understand it more. I also think her facial expressions are quirky and adorable. The screaming is definitely over the top but I hate to judge too harshly because relationships can bring out the best but they can also being out the worst and some of my worst was during fights with a partner, so I just try to remember I don’t know the full story and I also could react the same way… what’s the line from Wicker Park? Love makes us do crazy things…