She doesn’t want to work on your farm and she doesn’t want to get up early. If that’s your condition to live there, they need to know that. But geeez stop being so controlling and horrible. Maybe Brandon doesn’t want your stupid farm. Let him be his own adult!!!
Obviously, but most people with jobs have to celebrate their anniversary on the closest weekend and that’s going to often conflict with spending Mother’s Day and be two dinners out on the same paycheck and possible gifts, etc. It’s harder to make your anniversary special if it’s close to Valentines or Christmas or Mother’s Day or one of your birthdays.