Even though I think she could try harder to integrate, it’s clear they just want her gone at this point which doesn’t make it any easier. She never even mentions going back, but they constantly jump to that whenever there’s a problem rather than trying to find a solution. They seemed to really embrace her with the wedding and all but either it was for all for show or she’s really worn her welcome. TJ looks so fed up but that’s what he gets for deceiving her honestly.
She’s doing it to herself. Start at least trying to learn the language (which you should have done a long ass time ago.) Use a translator app. Look online for a local expat community or try to find local friends who speak English. Go out on your own and explore. Do something, anything other than just holing up and calling yourself a victim.
Exactly. She’s not locked in that apartment. Learn the language, find other expats, learn how to cook.
Exactly!! I got down voted on another sub for stating this exact thing.
Also, yelling like a 4 year old is childish and uncalled for. If that is how problems are worked out by screaming and one thinks that is ok, there is a serious problem.
Depression is depression. You clearly have no idea what it means to truly be depressed.
It doesn’t matter if Kim is the most entitled spoiled brat in the world, depression is a mother fucker and she does not deserve to be treated how TJ and Fam think is okay.
I am quite familiar with depression. I am also familiar with the various ways one can attempt to deal with it. I agree that TJ’s family is terrible towards her. Her best bet would probably be just to leave; but failing that or in the meantime, she can either stay locked away or try to do something. Didn’t say that it was easy - but it’s necessary.
She can do this without learning the language. You can get around pretty easily with just English in Jaipur. However, going out alone as a white woman is actually not the safest. I constantly got sexually harassed — in broad daylight, in crowded areas — when I was walking around alone in India. And I was covered up in the local clothes, too.
It’s a difficult place to adapt to as a Westerner without a support network.
She has started trying to learn the language. She said that in the episode. Maybe she could be trying harder now, but I think she made it pretty clear that she’s struggling in general.