Even though I think she could try harder to integrate, it’s clear they just want her gone at this point which doesn’t make it any easier. She never even mentions going back, but they constantly jump to that whenever there’s a problem rather than trying to find a solution. They seemed to really embrace her with the wedding and all but either it was for all for show or she’s really worn her welcome. TJ looks so fed up but that’s what he gets for deceiving her honestly.

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    They are disappointed that their imported maid/cook/housekeeper is not earning her keep. TJ is a jerk. He didn’t give her a clue as to what to expect or what her role would be even though he knew damn well she would have run.

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      You know I rewatched their segment last night and while Kimberly was not my favorite in the franchise, I felt genuinely bad for her. TJ is a narcissist chauvinist gaslighter. As soon as she started trying to share how she’s feeling he tells her go back to America. Instead of trying to be understanding, he automatically got defense and blamed her. Let’s face it, his mom and brother are passive aggressive assholes more than happy to hang up on her. This is really TJs fault anyways. Albeit she should have had a better understanding of the cultural roles, he is no way prepared her for the life of servitude she was embarking on. He even said during the wedding she doesn’t know. I’m sorry but I think it is important to discuss expectations before getting married. Also why the hell did he marry an American when he wanted a traditional wife? It’s like getting a wild horse, breaking it then being pissed off that it is unhappy losing its freedom. Like it owes you something for taking away the very best part of it. Plus, he was so doting and caring through the wedding until she was fully indoctrinated into his family cult. Then he changed because he cannot stand up to his mother and sees Kimberly as an inconvenience because she won’t step in line and be his maid/cook. When he tells her to go back to America she needs to go. From their little exchange this week it is clear that the family don’t like her and he will always put them first. I also don’t feel she is very safe. She cannot not get mental health treatment over there and narcissists can be very dangerous if even only verbally and emotionally.