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  • Historical-Map7788@alien.topBto90 Day FianceClayton and Anali
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    10 months ago

    If I was moving thousands of miles and leaving everyone behind my family and sick mom to land in a stinky ass one bedroom apartment with 4 animals, a toothless halfwit mom living in the closet (I am surprised there is no banjo playing when their episode comes on) and a man with expectations I drop my drawers immediately after I arrive I would not be feeling like ‘sexy time’ either. In fact, the more he pushes the worse it would be. I’m not saying that they shouldn’t be intimate however, I think it is understandable. Plus, we need to take into account that to keep viewers TLC inflict drama into the relationships and often edit to make things seem a certain way. They may even be having sex, TLC may just be playing up that issue for them for ratings.



  • You know I rewatched their segment last night and while Kimberly was not my favorite in the franchise, I felt genuinely bad for her. TJ is a narcissist chauvinist gaslighter. As soon as she started trying to share how she’s feeling he tells her go back to America. Instead of trying to be understanding, he automatically got defense and blamed her. Let’s face it, his mom and brother are passive aggressive assholes more than happy to hang up on her. This is really TJs fault anyways. Albeit she should have had a better understanding of the cultural roles, he is no way prepared her for the life of servitude she was embarking on. He even said during the wedding she doesn’t know. I’m sorry but I think it is important to discuss expectations before getting married. Also why the hell did he marry an American when he wanted a traditional wife? It’s like getting a wild horse, breaking it then being pissed off that it is unhappy losing its freedom. Like it owes you something for taking away the very best part of it. Plus, he was so doting and caring through the wedding until she was fully indoctrinated into his family cult. Then he changed because he cannot stand up to his mother and sees Kimberly as an inconvenience because she won’t step in line and be his maid/cook. When he tells her to go back to America she needs to go. From their little exchange this week it is clear that the family don’t like her and he will always put them first. I also don’t feel she is very safe. She cannot not get mental health treatment over there and narcissists can be very dangerous if even only verbally and emotionally.