Truthfully, I thought she had a lot of patience especially when they were burning literal shit & sprinkling piss in the house. I think she’s a a basket case at times, but I haven’t seen her do anything that should equal this amount of hate (at least that I remember) . She was literally saying she was depressed and TJ didn’t do a single thing but gaslight her into going back to America and told her it was her own fault. His family seem insufferable & I’m sure most people on here wouldn’t be able to deal with that. Sharing a space with a brother & stepmom who are condescending and rude and demand you to do things that wasn’t planned would make me scream too.
I can’t feel for Kimberly unfortunately. It’s one of those things where you have to assimilate/compromise. Even though TJ has gaslit her and lied to her, she knew that she was moving to India with a far more conservative culture/gender roles in comparison to America. Having been in a relationship with a desi guy myself, I understood what role I took on in his life if I continued the relationship, and it was like oop not for me. Not every desi guy is like TJ, but his behavior and inability to stand up to his family is just v telling.