I can’t feel for Kimberly unfortunately. It’s one of those things where you have to assimilate/compromise. Even though TJ has gaslit her and lied to her, she knew that she was moving to India with a far more conservative culture/gender roles in comparison to America. Having been in a relationship with a desi guy myself, I understood what role I took on in his life if I continued the relationship, and it was like oop not for me. Not every desi guy is like TJ, but his behavior and inability to stand up to his family is just v telling.
Libby’s family comes off as a bit nativist and probably dislike Andre because he’s foreign to their family in terms of personality, accent and manner of being.Esp if the sisters are married to Americans. I think Andre’s grudges towards Libby’s family is justified in the fact that they never gave him a chance. Libby’s sister literally sees him being gone via deportation; anyone who sees the immigration process as a way to kick out people they don’t like indicates ignorance and entitlement imo