Truthfully, I thought she had a lot of patience especially when they were burning literal shit & sprinkling piss in the house. I think she’s a a basket case at times, but I haven’t seen her do anything that should equal this amount of hate (at least that I remember) . She was literally saying she was depressed and TJ didn’t do a single thing but gaslight her into going back to America and told her it was her own fault. His family seem insufferable & I’m sure most people on here wouldn’t be able to deal with that. Sharing a space with a brother & stepmom who are condescending and rude and demand you to do things that wasn’t planned would make me scream too.
I too am a white woman who has in-laws from India. I agree with everything you said. Even when my mom was at the end stages of ALS and I was caring for her and trying to hold down a full time job while my husband was on a “sabbatical”, I was told to be positive. I had a Kimberly-like reaction. I relate to her so much. IYKYK. I’m just so glad I’m not halfway around the world from my friends and family. I’d be screaming my head off up and down the streets in Jaipur until I got deported.
As someone who took care of my Mom with ALS I send you my love and well wishes.
Be positive while your Mom wastes away. Eff that noise.
Then why the hell did you move to another culture that you don’t know the history, religion, nada. Not a nod to learning the religion, language? How can you suddenly realize that OMG my friends are not awake??? Times Zones??? Nobody told me. Nobody tells me any thing. Shit, they don’t understand me. Why didn’t they learn English? They knew I was to arrive shortly. But, hey I’m kinda sorta cute so I don’t give shit. Boring people are always bored.