I too am a white woman who has in-laws from India. I agree with everything you said. Even when my mom was at the end stages of ALS and I was caring for her and trying to hold down a full time job while my husband was on a “sabbatical”, I was told to be positive. I had a Kimberly-like reaction. I relate to her so much. IYKYK. I’m just so glad I’m not halfway around the world from my friends and family. I’d be screaming my head off up and down the streets in Jaipur until I got deported.