Truthfully, I thought she had a lot of patience especially when they were burning literal shit & sprinkling piss in the house. I think she’s a a basket case at times, but I haven’t seen her do anything that should equal this amount of hate (at least that I remember) . She was literally saying she was depressed and TJ didn’t do a single thing but gaslight her into going back to America and told her it was her own fault. His family seem insufferable & I’m sure most people on here wouldn’t be able to deal with that. Sharing a space with a brother & stepmom who are condescending and rude and demand you to do things that wasn’t planned would make me scream too.
Although she was willfully naive for believing that her life there would be anything other than what it is - the red flags were fluttering and flashing way before the wedding day, it looks like she didn’t do any research on the average woman’s life there, and she’s fortunate that abuse hasn’t occurred in such a hostile family situation - her avoiding his family was probably the smartest thing she could do to keep from escalating the situation.
It’s always interesting when family members who criticize you and cause conflict can’t handle someone completely withdrawing from drama and get in their feelings about it. Next week should be good.