Truthfully, I thought she had a lot of patience especially when they were burning literal shit & sprinkling piss in the house. I think she’s a a basket case at times, but I haven’t seen her do anything that should equal this amount of hate (at least that I remember) . She was literally saying she was depressed and TJ didn’t do a single thing but gaslight her into going back to America and told her it was her own fault. His family seem insufferable & I’m sure most people on here wouldn’t be able to deal with that. Sharing a space with a brother & stepmom who are condescending and rude and demand you to do things that wasn’t planned would make me scream too.
When moving to a new country/culture, you need to adapt. She wasn’t showing any move to adapt. She freaked out over baseboards and door frames. She got fussy when asked to cover up because her pants had massive holes.
I remember there was a scene where she yelled at TJ that his culture was sexist. There’s no denying that, but she isn’t going to be the one to change it. TJ isn’t going to change his upbringing overnight.
When told bluntly that she needed to respect the culture she has moved to, she bit Yash’s head off and went on about how she needs to keep what makes her unique. Ok, Yash could’ve chosen different words. The point is I don’t think he was calling her stupid, more like she was doing/saying stupid things.
I wish she had left before the wedding. She just isn’t suited to this culture. I’m not suited to it and I grew up half in one similar.