Honestly - if my husband: -lied to my about my role in the marriage until immediately after the marriage -let his family ice me out -completely disregards my feelings -disregards the fact that I am depressed & tells me it’s a personal problem -gaslight the shit out of me every time I tried to talk about my feelings
I would probably scream too. I hear ya Kimberly! I’m starting to feel manic for her
Her situation overall (gaslighting, narc husband) is similar to my practice marriage. It was hell, brutal and painful. At least she has a voice and isn’t afraid to speak up. I kept quiet until I couldn’t take it anymore and left (when it got physical with myself and him pushing our 3yo.) Sure, screaming at the top of your lungs doesn’t work and makes you look psychotic, but that’s what they want to happen.
Such shit for her.