I definitely don’t think these two will have a healthy relationship and I think they need to separate ASAP. But I also feel like shekinah was being a little unfair to the baby conversation. Tell him that her ex made her raise a kid alone and that she doesn’t wanna do it again- but not giving him the opportunity to prove different. Her ex husband didn’t work out in marriage so she could say the same things about marriage but she’s not. If she doesn’t wanna have a baby that’s 100% her choice and her line to draw but I feel like using her past as an excuse is unfair to sarper. He can’t change what happened and he can’t show her the future. Deny him a baby because you don’t want your body to go through that not this “well my ex did this and that” I feel like that’s a really immature way to view things. Same with Mary’s “I’m insecure because I’ve been done wrong” I get it that it’s hard to think someone will do you right after so many failures. But to hold you current partner that you say you trust, love, and want a future with accountable for YOUR past is unfair. There’s plenty of reasons for them to not have a baby but her dwelling on that just irks me and feels very high school
I wouldn’t trust Sarper as a babysitter, let alone a father. Shekinah made bad choices and is tangled up in a mess, but that doesn’t give that guy any right to impose his ideas on her, a mature woman who already raised a kid. I think if Sarper was an ok partner, he would’ve had a family of his own by now.
Also, I had an epiphany while watching him - this guy talks to women exactly like they do in porn. You see both using lots of internet lingo, but Sarper sounds like he only uses social media and PH to expand his vocabulary. His potential kid would call the mom a bitch and say “like and subscribe” before it would learn how to count to ten.